Can bride/graphic designer design her shower invitations?

by Peggy
(Southington, CT)

Hello, I am getting married soon and I am a graphic designer. I designed my own wedding invitations. My fiance's cousin is throwing a shower for me and she asked me if I'd like the opportunity to design my shower invitations so that they match - at least somewhat - the unique wedding invitations that I designed. I'd *love* the opportunity to design my shower invitations but I don't want it to look as if I am throwing my own shower. Would it be poor form etiquette-wise if I designed my own shower invitations? I would most certainly make sure that it's indicated on the shower invitation that the person throwing the shower is my fiance's cousin.