Am I required to do something?

by Johanna
(Murrayville, IL)

I just received an announcement from my daughter in laws brother that he and his live in girlfriend of 3 years are now married. what is expected of me? A gift? A card? Nothing. Please help me. I want to do the right thing. He is a nice fellow.

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What to send
by: Ms P Etiquette

Hello Johanna,

Please send this nice fellow a personally written card expressing your delight in his joy and wishing them happy years together. If you want to send a gift, that is fine as well, but not necessary. ​Letting him know you care about his future is what is important.

Ms. Practical Etiquette

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