My daughter has recently started a relationship with a divorced man with children. This past weekend my daughter met his children for the first time. This coming Friday her and her new love are hosting a BBQ having invited his parents, cousins and many friends after his daughter's dance recital. Am I wrong to feel hurt that they have not invited me. He suggested that I be invited but my daughter told him "we could do that some other time". Is it my responsibility to invite him to my home for dinner first before expecting any invitations from them?