My husbands oldest son from a previous marriage is getting married. His wife to be and him invited us to a restaurant to celebrate the engagement at a restaurant of their choice. 2 days before the dinner my husbands son calls up and says his wife to be 's parents are paying too much for the wedding and we need to pay for the dinner. They didn't even ask us they told us. We can't afford this. Why didn't they give us ample notice? This is so wrong. We don't even feel like going now.