Gift for baptism for child of a distant cousin we never met
My husband recently received an invitation to a baptism for a distant cousin of his that we have never met. She lives out of state. It wasn't even addressed to both of us (even though they know we are married and have been for 27 years). Are we really expected to send a gift? I feel like that is the ONLY reason we (he) even got the invite. I think it was almost rude to even invite him.