grandmother of the groom
My grandson is getting married soon and is planning a honeymoon to Italy for 2 weeks. He and the bride to be are offering a gift suggestion of sending money toward their honeymoon (50-100 dollars for their flight, same amount toward their hotel rooms, meals etc.). The guest can choose! I am appalled. I expressed my feelings to my daughter and she was very defensive of their actions. What do you think about this practice?