by Denise Conell
(North Caldwell, New Jersey)
I am getting ready to send Christmas cards out. My husband and I have two small children and my husband has two grown children ages 22 and 24 from previous marriage who live out of state. Although, we always keep in contact with them and they visit a couple of times a year, they have never lived with us. Is it rude to send Christmas cards and exclude their names? Their mom remarried several years ago and they do their own cards.