Is it rude that my mother I. Law addressed a thank you to just my husband
(Montrose, NY Westchester )
My husband and I hosted my mother in law for the weekend for her birthday celebration. We made a nice dinner, the kids played with her and we all watched a movie. The next day we took her to a parade before my husband driver her home. She sent a thank you just addressed to my husband. He will also be taking her to the theater on another weekend. I am not going to keep cost down and because we have three children to tend to. Was it rude that she sent a thank you to him and at the end thanked me for shopping and cleaning g the house. I feel upset because I helped to pull off the celebration with my time, money and effort. Those were not just my husbands. I feel that my husband should comment to her that he felt the thank you should have been for us both. He doesn’t need to say much but just continue to communicate that we are a couple and our efforts are joint efforts. Please share you opinion with me.