“Let it go “
(TX , USA)
Should I let my nephew know , his mom ( my sis #2 )) didn’t invite us to wedding . My sis is handing out invitations to close family members , despite bride & groom present & could have delivered invites themselves. I saw her with my own eyes , since she did it in front of me at church of all places. I have been very close to sister #2 , but this year we have distant ourselves. She acts all holier than thou , she is better , knows better , etc. I don’t always see eye to eye with her, since she don’t approve of my husband. She speaks down to him despite we ( spouse & me ) are college grads & she is not. When our dad passed away (7 yrs ago ), we decided sis #6 was going to get Veteran Flag , however it was presented to sis #1. Sis #1 said she was taking flag to Chicago BUT would return it, since she wanted to bond with Dad’s flag. We have mentioned her returning flag , & excuse after excuse . Lately she said , she never agreed for sis #6 getting flag. I feel sis #2 & sis #3 condone sis #1 behavior & don’t mention anything to sis #1,because when I bring up the topic, you can hear a pin drop. Sis #6 keeps telling me to “let it go “. But I can’t . I have a problem & hold grudges that affect our family. My nephew is getting married & we aren’t invited because sis #2 is excluding us out , not due to space, out of town or $$. Cuz she hand delivered invitation to my out of town niece (6 hrs away ) while we were at church. Mind you , we only live ten minutes away from sis #2 ,#3 & sis #6. Sister #5 wants nothing to do with family ( NE).Sometimes , I just want to move far away from family like sis #5. I have a good relationship with groom to be . Sister #6 invited but not attending due to “ no kids allowed “ . What should I do ?