Mother of two adult daughters
(San Antonio tx)
There is going to be a 90th birthday party for my ex mother in law who I love and her son is remarried but we all get along and I am still alone.
My daughters feel that due to him being remarried I have no place being there.
I feel she is still grandmother to my children and I am thier mother whom they grew up with.
I also get along with their fathers new wife and all of my ex's family, is it inappropriate for me to want to go and honor her on this happy occasion?