my mother-in-law wants an invite to my sisters wedding
by upset daughter-in-law
(chino hills, ca)
My mother-in-law is asking me to ask my twin sister if she is being invited to my twin's wedding. My mother-in-law has known the groom for over 17 years, but lately has not been social with him or my sister. My husband feels that it is entirely appropriate to ask this question, and because he dislikes my family and refuses to spend time with them, I'm worried a no, even the most polite of no's will be taken very dramatically by both my in-laws and husband.