My cousin invited my daughter to a birthday party (pool) for her daughter and made a big deal about us going then said my two other children couldn't attend because it was girls only. Am I wrong that it hurt my feelings as we are family and she knows I am the main caretaker of my kids. They are nice and well mannered, even more so than my daughter, I just said I would have to drop her off as I can't just leave them.? Am I wrong that if it was that important that we go, (it seems to be a big deal to her) that you would make sure I know the details? Or have it on the invite. She only has one child. I don't know I feel as though i missed something?