Seating arrangements for close family
Last August my brothers daughter got married.
My adult children and I were invited along with my fiancé .
My son last minute couldn’t go but forgot to rvsp his answer, on the day of the wedding my fiancé and I weren’t seated at the family table , the brides parents , grandparents , and aunts and uncles including my sister were.
I got so hurt !
Unfortunately I can’t hide my feelings!
My sisters told me I was selfish and that it’s the brides day , no one else’s so as long as she’s happy everything is done her way .
My nieces excuse was that the venue divided the table so there would be space for the waiters to pass around.
My name wasn’t even written on the same table in the entrance
I cant believe how impolite they were , I’m also hurt that my brother didn’t even say anything about it , no one even came to our table .
Am I exaggerating or what .
My sister has made me feel so stupid that I’m hurting for what happened
The day after I sent my brother and sister in law a text
Telling them how I felt and even more , my sister in law has always put me down , and I never answered her back.
I guess with the wedding really got me !
Now they’re saying my text was uncalled for and offensive , all I know , if you treat people like they’re invisible or let them think they’re lower than you then one day it’s going to blow in your face !
I always treat people as I want to be treated !!!