Wedding gifts AND shower gifts for former DIL and her fiance'?
Our son died 3 1/2 years ago and our daughter-in-law is getting remarried to a very wonderful man. He seems to be an answer to our prayers for her. We want to get them gifts from their registry while there are some still available in our price range. The gifts would be delivered to our DIL's home about 6 weeks prior to the wedding. What should we write in the card that will accompany the gifts? If we send these gifts now, am I obligated to also send something in response to a bridal shower invitation even if I do not attend?
Thank you for your help.