What's right?

by Carol Cole
(Miami, Fl, USA )

my sister passed away 3 years ago, and my brother-in-law has a girlfriend, should I feel obligated to have them to our immediate family Christmas dinner, now that he has moved on?

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by: Ms P Etiquette


​The answer to your question depends upon your relationship with your former brother-in-law. In some cases with widows and widowers of deceased family members, the new spouse ​is welcomed into the extended family, increasing the size rather than the widowed in-law leaving your family. It is entirely up to you, him and his new wife how this plays out. However, there is no "obligation".

Inclusion comes from the heart.

Ms. Practical Etiquette​

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