I'm planning a family dinner out for my daughter's college graduation. I'm remarried and have been for three years; my ex-husband does not want my present husband to attend the dinner, claiming it would be awkward for him, as the two have not yet met.
I want to be gracious, but would like my husband to be there to celebrate with us. He and my daughter have a good relationship.
Do good manner stipulate that I give in to my ex-husband's request?