Bat mitzvah invites
My husband's sister and brother in law planned a bat mitzvah for their daughter. They had a Friday night service, Friday night dinner at the grandparents home after service, Sat service, Sat night party, and Sun brunch. My parents and my sister and her family were only invited to the Saturday service at the temple. A few years ago my sister invited my husband's parents, his sister and her entire family to my sisters son't barmitzvah (service, lunch, party, and brunch).
I think it is horrible that my sister in law did not reciprocate. In addition, she did not include my parents (her only brothers in laws) to the other functions. They have plenty of money so that is not the issue.
Am I overracting? I am furious.