My future daughter in law recently had a lingerie shower given to her by her attendants. (She gave them a guest list on the approval of her mother) Only half of the grooms family, my husbands & mine, were invited. I explained to the bride & attendants that some were going to be offended by their actions and if money were the issue I would help. (That was what my son had told me was part of the issue). They were excluded anyway. Am I out of line in my being upset with her and her family?