Brother and sister not invited to nephews wedding
my sister and her son, my nephew did not invite my brother and I to his wedding nearly 2 years ago. My sister mentioned to me at my birthday that her son was going to be married in a couple of months. As the time grew near, I had not received my invite. I called her to tell her I had not received it yet. To my surprise she made up this story that she didn't think I would want to come as "I had not seen him in a long time". As for my brother, she said she didn't want him to be uncomfortable because of a medical condition he has. So, for the last 2 years my brother and I have spent the holidays together with our kids and its actually kinda nice as my sister would always try and out do us in gifts and is one of these premadonnas that everything has to have a brand name or title on it.
Out of the blue, this christmas she texted me an invite to a christmas party on a boat in Discovery Bay. I called my brother to see if he received the text also and he said no he did not receive anything from her. I texted her back saying No thanks. Then get this note back saying at least she is trying. I answered her by saying why wait all this time to "try" and make amends.
A phone call would have been nice.
I don't know why I was expecting her to change, after all, she decided to take a trip with some guy she met online to Hawaii and turned her phone off while my brother and I were with our mom when she passed away. She's a nurse too. Real compassionate.