by Matthew Sain
I have debated this for a long time and am curious what is the proper answer. My father always considers himself as the king default when it comes to respect. All hail king Dad! So in a conversation about fathers day he gets upset when I tell him that I had plans for fathers day with my daughters. It is my assumption that once you became a father and them a grandparent it should be your day not grandparents day. If not then I guess I get to wait till he is gone to actually get Fathers day and not default to me during the time I am actually a father with my kids living at home. Thoughts?