My fiance and I are getting married in January, 2013, which will be 2 years since his brother passed away. My fiance doesn't have close friends, and wouldn't agree to any groomsmen because he wanted his brother to be his best man, and having any other person standing there felt like replacing his brother. I agreed that we could name his brother as best man in programs, etc, and he agreed to having my brother and his dad stand with him at our wedding. My original thought was to list his father as a groomsman, but my fiance wants him listed as standing in for his brother, not as a groomsman in his own right. My question is, how to I represent this? I had thought, Best Man: Brandon W in memoriam, Steven W standing but it sounds sort of off. I'd love some advice!