Permanent housequests and invitations.
A dear friend has moved her sister into her home. This friend expects that her sister be included in all invitations that she is extended. The sister is whiny, self centered and acts childish for attention. My friend arranges all of her sister's invites..brings her along to all meetings, lunches etc. Whereas I understand my friend wants to introduce her around and get her to meet people..this sister will do nothing to arrange her own outings, make her own friends etc. I hate to lose a friend over this and I am not the only one in our circle that feels that way. I just feel that my friend has put us all between a rock and hard place...we want to be with her but do not want to have her sister around all the time because of the way she acts. By moving her into her home..it forces everyone to include the sister or risk offending our friend. Any suggestions Our friend has really changed since the sister moved in and has dropped a lot of the friends since the move in.