Son's Girlfriend & Husbands 50th birthday celebration?
Our sons girlfriend is not being invited to my husbands 50th birthday celebration.
She was included in our Christmas holiday with immediate family and her behavior was unacceptable. Drinking, inappropriate behavior and language, lack of gratitude for trip to Hawaii and gifts.
We spoke to our son about our concerns and disapproval of her decisive actions as well. My husband also spoke to both our son and girlfriend during the holiday when their collective behavior affected the entire family. We have included her in several social situation with family and friends and have been stunned with her behavior.
Realizing our real focus should be "why would our son believe this is what he deserves"
Our son is invited to the celebration and we have explained why she is not included. She has no boundaries, filters and zero respect for our family standards for conduct and behavior.
Our son does not know how to let her know he is going to be with his father for his birthday, but she is not invited.
What advice should we give him.