I received an invitation from two hostesses. The wording was; "join us" in celebrating a birthday. We'll meet at a restaurant (for a meal) followed by a movie at a theater, because this is what the birthday girl likes to do best.
My question is : Will everyone be paying for themselvesl ,or, are the hostesses paying ? They're asking for an RSVP and the birthday girl made party favors to hand out so I know a gift is expected.